Many people have an "itch" to remove objects and
activities from their lives, in order to achieve a
greater sense of peacefulness - and to save
resources from henceforth. If you're reading this
page, you doubtless have experienced at least
occasional urges to simplify your life.
...But a commitment to less? To most,
that may seem a pretty radical approach. However,
committing to less doesn't necessarily have to
involve a vow of poverty! It could mean that you
desire to commit yourself to a continual
renewal of your efforts to be more mindful
of your spending and accumulating habits - because
you find that a leaner lifestyle tends to lead to
a greater feeling of fulfillment, of "rightness"
for you. (After all, it does indeed take less to fill
a smaller container of any type - even a life!)
Author Wayne Dyer expresses, in his book Change
Your Thoughts, Change Your Life,
another aspect of simplifying that comes into play
in some people's decision-making - and that in a
way reverberates around the pages of this
website:
"...Everything that you add to your life brings
with it an element of imprisonment: Your
stuff requires you to insure it and protect it
from potential thieves or natural disasters;
furthermore, you need to polish, paint, clean,
store, and pack it, as well as move it from place
to place. ...True mastery can only be gained by
freeing yourself of attachments to things and, in
fact, downsizing what you already have."
Less can be more... if it helps you gain more
contentment, or if the money you save allows you
to achieve your dreams. Homesteading blogger
Patrice Lewis says that "Frugality is not deprivation
or a penance; it's deliverance" - and
that it can be simply a matter of plugging the
leaks in the outflow from a paycheck when your
normal spending routines result in "death by a
thousand cuts". The real trick, as she emphasizes,
is simply to spend less than you make...
and keep working at that until you've trained
yourself to enjoy that more thoughtful
lifestyle.
There are a growing number of books available
that explore the topic of committing to less as a
lifestyle. They are in rather a wide range, from
the philosophical, socioeconomic, and
environmental to the personal and physical
(spiritual striving; working less; living well on
little money; decluttering one's space).
Some of the particularly interesting books along
these lines that I've run across are:
Living
More with Less, by
Doris Janzen Longacre, is a now-updated 1980
classic from out of the Mennonite experience. It
includes thoughtful and thought-provoking articles
by others from a 30-years-after perspective. Two
of these follow Longacre's revealing chapter
titled "Nonconform Freely". A line in one sticks
with me: "By living simple, peace-oriented
lives, we embody our critique of culture." And
indeed, many who seek simplicity do so in reaction
against the "overconsumptive" stress in modern
culture (you?).
Downshifting:
How to Work Less and Enjoy Life,
by John D. Drake, gives advice on how to explore
the possibilities of downsizing your job so as to
give yourself more "life" - supportive especially
for those in a corporate environment.
The
Simple Living Guide: A Sourcebook for
Less Stressful, More Joyful Living,
by Janet Luhrs (who published the Simple
Living Journal), is truly a compendium of all
kinds of means to a simpler life. A chapter
called "Inner Simplicity" is a reflection on
awareness (or lack thereof) of what we're doing
and the choices we're making. Other chapters offer
more practical strategies for downsizing and
simplifying, redesigning and savoring your life.
Simplicity
Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power
of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and
More Secure Kids,
by family consultant Kim John Payne and Lisa M.
Ross, is for anyone who has kids or grandkids, or
who is interested in kid phenomena in the modern
world. I'm thinking that if you do have kids and
read this book, you will be making a
commitment to simpler living! - kids need
simple.
The
New Good Life: Living Better Than Ever
in an Age of Less,
by best-selling author John Robbins, is a
provocative look at our relationship
with money, and how making that relationship more
conscious and meaningful can be transformational
in our lives. "Affluenza"
- "the painful, contagious, socially transmitted
condition of overload, debt, anxiety, and waste
resulting from the dogged pursuit of more" - is
"the old good life" (recognize it?)...
and no wonder Robbins is concerned with
redefining "wealth". There are
many good practical suggestions in the book - but
perhaps more importantly, this author dares to
voice the hope that others talk about amongst
themselves (I know this, because I and my friends
do), that the folding of the house-of-cards
consumer economy might lead to a beneficial
restructuring of people's individual and
collective lifestyle choices. And, as one of his
chapter subheadings states, "The good life doesn't
have to cost the planet" - and a leaning toward
simplicity surely can have a worldwide
impact in the aggregate. I'm calling it good, even
if it pinches some.
You can also find many resources about the simple
lifestyle on the Web. Try putting keywords such as
"simple living", "minimalism", "living simply",
and "voluntary simplicity" into your browser. Many
others worldwide are attracted to and
participating in simplifying their lives - and
many have written/are writing online about their
journeys of change. (The same types of keywords
will find you other books on Amazon and perhaps in
your local library.)
If you feel a need for some greater companionship
in these efforts, look for an online discussion
forum, or a group in your community (try www.meetup.com
and other such services online - or start one!).
Do you like the sensation of sitting in an
uncluttered space? Of the sense of freedom you can
get from living out of a suitcase when you're on a
trip?
If you have a niggling feeling that less really
is apt to feel like more, maybe you'll at least
choose to make a commitment to studying the
effects of less on your well-being.